Failure at your first attempt might just be a bad time- keep your patience and aspiration alive until your clock clicks in

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Shambhu Rai-AE

          Are you worried of how will you set your goal in life and making a plan or afraid of being unsuccessful in your few attempts? By the way, it's never too late to try one more time for what  you truly intend to acquire and have already attempted but yet unachieved. There may be a feeling of hollowness, some frustration and anxieties, low self esteem and lack of confidence to accomplish even your routine and trivial matters henceforth. Nothing to worry about it because everything happens for a reason as every night falls to welcome a beautiful next morning.

As we all know every successful personalities had their failure past. Everything happens at its own pace. You do have your own timeline so do I. Generally it is thought to be more precise achievement in life if one completes formal education on time, pursues a dream job and settle a life. Like earning graduation at the age 21 and finding an ideal job after the completion of MBA from renowned universities of the globe, buying a dream house,  getting married on time and let the life be set have always been castle in the air for many. However there are exceptions too.

Keep patience! Everyone has his/her own clock. You do not necessarily worry for seeing some people leaving you far behind, neither you should bear any arrogance looking down to those ones at your hills off. There are people who got graduation at 21 but still have no jobs, people who have the great jobs after completing university degree at late 30's. Likewise there are people  who dropped off universities, found a purpose, still are successful and have been inspirations to the world today. You may know there are some who have specific plans at teenage but change mind at adolescent. There are people who have children without getting married and some have to wait for years long to have children. On the other hand there are people who are together, yet love someone else and some Romeo and Juliet of the modern time love each other but they are not able to be together. You should never give a second option to yourself but definitely one more chance for the thing that you would stick to do at heart.

 Do you know about Einstein who attempted 999 times repeatedly right before the invention of E=mc2 (electric bulb).  Bill Gates, a college dropped off chap, who has been very successful entrepreneur of the 21st century. The perfectionist Bollywood Fraternity star Amir khan, a college dropped off who is tremendously a great artist. Jack Ma- who is the successful entrepreneur of current times. He tried to apply study abroad for several times but failed and he would always be the final attendee wherever he gave job interviews. He started Alibaba group at the age of 35. Which made him who he is today. J.K. Rowling is an icon writer of the centuries, who wrote "Harry Porter " but could not publish as rejected by 12 publications. Finally he was able to publish at the age of 32 years. His book has been still the best seller.

Therefore receiving a university degree at middle age is still an achievement. Being single and living happy life at late 30"s is still okay!  Finding your dream land at 40's is still great. It may take time. It's your timeline that clicks for you. Keep patience and be focused more on what you enjoy doing. Remember failure at first attempt is just a bad time. You have your own clock, wait until it clicks, you have your own time.
Keep moving!!!






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